๐ง ๐๐ธWhen My Sharpness Speaks Before My Softness Does
This reflection is part of a deeper shift I shared recently in: “When I Speak My Truth, My Voice Changes — And That Can Be Hard to Hear.” There’s something I’ve had to face about myself lately And it’s this: When I speak truth, my voice changes. It sharpens. It cuts through softly layered emotions. It doesn’t come to cuddle It comes to clarify. And I’ve noticed that this shift in my tone… Can be misread. By those closest to me. Even by people who’ve trusted me deeply for a long time. They feel judged. Or scolded. Or like I’ve turned into someone colder than I used to be. But that’s not what’s happening. What’s happening is: I’m tired of whispering the same reflection To people who don’t truly want to see it yet. I’ve realized that people come to me when I’m in my reflective state When I’m quiet. Still. Deeply tuned in. They bring their emotional storms, their loops, their pain Because I hold space in a way that makes them feel seen. But they often come… Not to listen, But to be h...